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Is it possible to rekindle the spark you once felt for your husband even if it has been YEARS since you felt anything?
Is it possible that you can enjoy intimacy with your husband even though you are NEVER in the mood (blame hormones, stress and emotional disconnect)?
Is it possible that you can have the loving relationship you have dreamed about as a Kallah even though you have gained 20 lbs, feel stressed ALL the time and haven’t had a date night in YEARS?
Is it possible for your marriage to go from “friendly roommates” to a passionate soul-satisfying intimate relationship, without having to visit therapists, check out questionable websites, and search for information in inappropriate books?
ABSOLUTELY!
I have developed a system that takes away:
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The problem of only finding secular sources for discovering your body, your femininity, and the way everything works – and being confused and disturbed by some of the information out there.
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The struggle with managing all of your responsibilities as a mother, wife, worker, teacher, daughter, mother-in-law…you name it, you’ve got it. And the exhaustion leaves you wondering WHERE there’s time for “date night”!
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The need to be the “perfect wife” – because NOBODY is perfect and striving for perfection will only leave you sad and frustrated.
It literally & truly takes you to a deep, loving, and intimate connection with your husband in a few short months!
“I’m offering you this priceless course –
and everything that is included with it…”
Can you put a price on: …
intimacy, love & connection in marriage…
…SHECHINA… SIYATA DISHMAYA?
Total Monetary Value » $1,997 «
…but you won’t pay $1,997!
Just LOOK at the EXTRAORDINARY PRICE I’m offering YOU
$597.00
Topic 1: Kedusha, Desire and Pleasure – Getting Our Heads on Straight
You will achieve mind blowing clarity about intimacy (the Mitzvah of Onah) and its centrality to the Torah home. With the writings of contemporary and classic sources, many based on Kabbalah, you will finally feel a sense of freedom to explore the delights that marriage has to offer in a whole new way.Topic 2: The Female Pleasure System – Connecting to You
In this module we discuss the female body and the art and the science behind experiencing pleasure. Here you will be empowered with the most up to date information about the female pleasure system and will learn tips, tools and techniques to maximize each intimate encounter. You will reclaim your amazing feminine and sensual essence. This class has been an absolute favorite with all of my students: young, old, Kallah teachers, professionals those who were satisfied with their intimate life – and those who were not!Topic 3: Where is My Desire: A Holistic Approach to Nurturing Your Libido
“Come on, Gila! Just give me a few tips to get in the mood!” Women always say this to me. Desire is much more than a few tips. In this topic, we identify physical, emotional, psychological and spiritual blocks to desire and provide you with a toolbox of practical solutions. The libido is connected to our life force. Nurturing our libido not only opens you up to a greater desire for intimacy, but to a desire for LIFE!Topic 4: Two Paths, One Goal – Male & Female Energy in Intimacy
Intimacy is not just about male and female bodies connecting, but rather the dance of male and female energy. Here we will focus on understanding how the male and female process in intimacy works and learn how to maximize each intimate encounter. Here we also discuss how to handle the differences in levels of desire within a marriage – narrowing the gap, bridging the gap and the unique formula for damage control.Topic 5: Igniting and Reigniting the Fire Until 120: Stepping out of your Comfort Zone
In this module we discuss the two core ways to keep passion alive over the years – introducing novelty and through adding depth. Intimacy has been defined as “Into Me You See”. True intimacy is sharing our deepest and most private parts of ourselves with another. Both of these concepts require that you step out of your comfort zone – the key to a lifetime of soul – satisfying oneness. Here you will find a plethora of ideas to enhance your relationship on all levels, in every way.Topic 6: In the Merit of Righteous Woman – A Woman’s Role in Intimacy
Now you are ready to fully embrace your feminine power and celebrate your feminine gifts – as the guardian and navigator of your home. This ties together everything we have learned, creating happy and fulfilled marriages – affecting our destiny – GEULA!Q&A SESSIONS
Get your most pressing questions answered!BONUS CLASSES!
Interspersed throughout the courseSOUL SATISFYING TOOL KIT
Exercises & techniques to ignite physical & emotional intimacy.DIGITAL WORKBOOK
With summaries on each topic
MY HEART JOURNAL
Over 50 journaling prompts to guide you through your own personal transformation.GOOGLE DRIVE ACCESS
With recordings & resources to download *
Hello Friends!
II’m Gila.
First and foremost, I’m a wife. I’m also a mother, Shvigger and Bubby.
I’ve been giving marriage courses for well over twenty years. Kedushas Habayis – the Holiness of a Jewish Home, has been my passion for years. I taught hundreds of classes on the topic. I’ve also had the privilege to be a Kalla teacher and trainer for Kalla teachers for the past two decades.
Enough about myself, let’s speak about you.
You are the reason why I started Heart of Marriage.
For years I believed taking marriage classes saturated with our holy Torah’s wisdom + working on our middos was enough to change a marriage.
And it was. For some women.
But so many women were still frustrated.
Marriages were peaceful – but lacking depth and vitality.
Women lacked perspective.
Women were feeling guilty and ashamed.
Women were disconnected from their bodies and desires.
Women were confused.
Do you also feel this way sometimes?
It feels so disempowering.
How сап you bе а joyful, loving wife with such mixed feelings about the most important part of your marriage?
And so, with the guidance of Rabbanim and educators, I changed my focus.
Instead of just teaching Kallahs and Kallah teachers about the importance of intimacy.
I committed to make it available to every Jewish woman.
Not just bеаutiful hashkafos, but аlso PRACTICAL INFORMATION.
Because every woman needs to have knowledge about the most important part of marriage.
Because every woman should be an expert in the Heart of her Marriage.
Because every woman deserves to know the Torah perspective on what a true loving, passionate, intimate, holy marriage should look like.
So that every woman can experience a marriage of soul-satisfying oneness.
When is the course starting? How does it work?
We are starting Monday, June 3rd with our KICK OFF call and Topic 1. Q&A are done via Zoom, Webinar topics are done by recording. You will receive in your inbox the information about the recordings and where to find them on our HEARTLINE. New topics are opened weekly or bi weekly. Each recording is between 10-30 mins.Will this be another class telling me I need to be available for my husband all the time?
No, I promise you will not hear that from me! The focus of this course is YOU. Your needs, your desires, your pleasure— to empower YOU. This is going to bring you to a deeper connection with your husband and a more fun and loving marriage.I’ve already taken marriage classes. Will this really help me?
I have gathered together the most powerful Torah sources, the most up to date practical information, the best tips and How To’s, the most effective tools and techniques for emotional and physical intimacy from so many places… and wrapped them up in a perfect package for YOU to maximize physical and emotional intimacy in your marriage.We’ve already been to therapy and it hasn’t helped. Why would this?
A lot of couples’ therapy focuses on fixing the negative. We are not going there; we are focusing on YOU. Isn’t your marriage worth one more try? Isn’t your happiness and peace of mind worth just one more try? This reminds me of a story: After one of my classes where we talked about ways to reignite intimacy, I gave my students a certain exercise to do at home. One woman told me they had just started seeing a therapist, paid the cost of this entire course for just one therapy session, and were given the very same exercise to do.What if I don’t have time to implement these tools?
It’s not a matter of time —you are going to be so excited to try these ideas! Nothing takes long; each exercise is just a few minutes. And if you are not ready for them, you can come back to them when you are.Is there a payment plan?
Contact Me to divide it into up to three payments.What if I find it’s just not for me?
You have two weeks from our starting date to decide. If, for whatever reason, you don’t think it’s for you, just send us an email and we will refund you. There is a $50 processing fee. BUT, I want to warn you not to give up before the magic begins. Many of our participants report incredible changes only after going through the entire program.How do I sign up? I can’t open links!!
Call 845-400-9559 and press 5 If you need a payment plan, call me to divide it into up to three payments.Do you have Rabbinical approval?
Yes. Rav Zev Leff, Rav Yitzchak Breitowitz, and Rav Chaim Krause, Shlit”a, are totally in support of this project, and guide me when any questions in hashkafa or halacha come up. Many other Rabbonim have also made themselves available to answer questions and review material. We suggest that you speak to your own Rav if you are unsure about this course for ruchnius reasons.My husband suffers from addiction/Asperger’s/mental illness. Can this course help me?
This course is for regular marriages with the regular challenges. It is not created to deal with these specific situations. However, this course is really ABOUT YOU, not your husband. You will learn tools and techniques to enhance your marriage – whatever your circumstances are. I suggest you speak to a Rav or a professional who is familiar with your situation before making the commitment.I suffered from trauma/abuse earlier in my life. Will this course help me?
If you have not been treated by a professional for this issue, PLEASE DO NOT TAKE THIS COURSE! It will be difficult for you to absorb the material and could possibly do more harm than good. Go get help and come back in a year or so. If you did receive therapy but still feel there are some scars, I advise you to discuss this with a professional before joining us. If you are in therapy now, please discuss with your therapist whether this is the right time for you to take this course. If you feel the trauma no longer affects your level of function, this course will contribute to even deeper healing. Many of our participants report incredible changes only after going through the entire program.My husband is the least desirous between us. Do you address this situation?
This is addressed in Topic 4: Two Paths to One Goal.
There are varied reasons for a man’s lack of libido- sometimes it is quite complex.
Many women started the course because of this situation and experienced a total “turn around” in their marriage’s dynamics during the four months of REVITALIZING INTIMACY FORMULA. Other women shared less dramatic results. You won’t know until you try.
I have been married for many years and have never experienced any pleasure. Will this course help me?
ABSOLUTELY! Many women have been helped with this through the REVITALIZING INTIMACY FORMULA. I can assure you that you will be in a totally different place with this challenge at the end of the course. However, I cannot promise it willGILA, I HAVE NO WORDS
I don’t have enough words to describe how this course has impacted my life. Somehow from that first intro class I noticed a shift. I’ve been implementing even the little things I have been learning about – I now see the light in my husband’s eyes. I was also surprised to hear that I’m supposed to act normally and pleasantly and not keep an emotional distance during nidda. Wow. Up until now I acted very reserved and hardly smiled at him… (!!)
I feel reborn. Actually REVITALIZED!
Peri
Stamford Hill
“I’m sure you’ve heard this already many times, from many people, but I have to say it acain – THIS COURSE IS AMAZING!!! I have been looking for such a course for a long time and didn’t know where to find it, and Hashem sent it to me and it already made such a difference in my life! So THANK YOU!”
Chanchi
Manchester
“The content of the course was excellent; the delivery superb; such high-quality materials from a variety of sources! Your knowledge is just flowing over – from your mind and heart into our ours. It’s so much fun listening to you!
P.S. My husband is your biggest fan!”
Suri
Boro Park
At The End Of This Course
Paradigm Shift – to a different mindset on the importance of physical intimacy in a Jewish marriage Connection – to and comfort with your body as a conduit for pleasure and intimacy Excitement – that elevates your everyday life! Insight – with step-by-step how-to’s making the best of each intimate encounter Tools & Techniques – to enhance your marriage on all levels – physical, emotional, and spiritual More Fun & Laughter – within your marriage and with your family Enjoyment – of physical intimacy more than ever A Deep Emotional Connection – with your husband Peace of Mind – and gratitude that you invested in your relationship Blissful Satisfaction – bringing your best self to your husband, your children; YOUR FAMILY!
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