Level 1 – Six Sparks of Connection

• ACCEPTANCE – Gain Clarity by getting to meet your resistant parts, to face and appreciate them instead of fighting with them. Increase more flow as you do the things that “work with you” instead of “against you”.

  • “I should be happy, I have a beautiful family, and yet I feel unsettled.” So began Ruchi’s introduction. “Stop Right there Ruchi, just for a moment, let us meet your unsettled part, what does it want to say, what is it trying to tell you.” With a surprised look, Ruchi checked in, as she did so, even before we did any work, her shoulders relaxed, her chest opened up as she visibly relaxed. Ruchi was now working with her system instead of against it.

• RESPECT – Develop Courage to ask for what you need.

“I’m telling you, there was smoke coming out of my ears,” Devoiry announced melodramatically. “I cooked the entire day preparing food for Yom Tov, FINE! I oversaw the cleaning of the house, FINE! I took care of the washing, FINE! I fried fresh schnitzel for dinner, FINE! and then when I came to the table there was nothing left for me. Nobody had thought to think, ‘hey what’s Mummy going to eat for dinner?’ Suddenly NOTHING was fine!”

• TRUST – Increase Confidence to listen to your inner voice and feel secure in your relationship.

Have you ever had this dilemma?

Your husband is asking you to do something. A part of you does not feel comfortable with it. Another part pressures you, ‘Come on, be a good wife.’ You keep going like a ping pong ball between these 2 parts and no matter who you ask advice from, you will always feel like you have either failed yourself or your husband.

• APPRECIATION – Feel the power of Connection as you learn to feel appreciation and use it as a force that fuels your relationship.

  • “I don’t know,” Chaya shared, “I have the kindest husband and yet our relationship feels so bland and boring.” After spending some time with Chaya, it was clear, that although she was polite and grateful for what her husband did, it all stayed in her head, she could never took a moment, to stop and FEEL the appreciation in her body, allowing it to expand her heart, and reflect that back to her husband, deepening their connection.

• RESOLUTION – Unleash your Creativity with courage to stop predictable patterns in your relationships and discover new ways of relating.

  • “After learning about the marriage cycle, what I love most is I understand that when my husband triggers me, I can share that with him, and take the time to gently tap into my little inner child and reassure her that I am here for her and I know how to handle my husband, she doesn’t need to lash out at him in fear or anger.”

• TIME – Learn the Calming effect on your nervous system through spending more time with your husband.

  • Have you ever wondered what the secret of Happy marriages is?

Each topic includes exploring our relationships with ourselves, our husbands and Hashem.

After Completing Level 1 Six Sparks of Connection you will be able to access healing on burdens you have carried for years and finally let go of them. This will enable you to live a freer, more connected life as you increase your understanding of the cycle of marriage and be able to stop getting stuck in a spin cycle and falling for the same old patterns of resentment, guilt, frustration, repeat.

This course will help you to move through the cycle from disconnection to connection.

You loved Level 1 – Six Sparks of Connection,

and you would like to know what else UNiTE has to offer you?

After completing Level 1: Six Sparks of Connection – you will have the opportunity to ascend from level to level whether seeking personal growth or aspiring to become a Kallah Teacher or a Mentor to Marrieds.

Take your learning further to gain Intimacy skills with

Level 2 – The ART of Intimacy Course – Begins – Mid February

The Art of Intimacy is an extensive program discovering what lies at the core of the Jewish home, the impact of mistaken beliefs and understandings and how to work towards creating a different reality with your husband, releasing blockages and increasing unity.

(Date Subject to Change)

10 weeks

For those who want to take their training a level up…

Level 3 The ART of Kallah Teaching

– An extensive training program to help you teach Kallah’s with confidence.

A hands on training experience, where once you learn the Halachos, you will break up into zoom rooms with partners and you will teach your ‘kallah’ the Halachos.  Your peer will provide feedback, helping you zone in on the areas you would like to refine.  Mindy will be supervising parts of the teaching and learning and providing feedback as well.  After each experience, we will debrief and discuss our observations, our parts that came up around each experience, and support going forward.

15 weeks