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The Essence of Intimacy (based on the 9 Middos) FOR MEN ONLY

Explore the inner meaning of marital unity from a true Jewish perspective

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The Rabbis delineate 9 circumstances where intimacy is problematic. Chazal refer to them as the “The Tisha Middos”. These negative situations are: fear, force, hatred, strife, temurah, intoxication, intentions of divorce, confusion, and brazenness. Paradoxically, from these 9 negative situations, we can learn the positives- and come to an understanding of the true nature of intimacy, in a way you may have never considered before.

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Rabbi Aryeh Nivin is the founder and director of R’ Aryeh Nivin’s Chaburas and the research institute Machon HaAdam Hashalem.

He takes Classic Torah Concepts and translates them into practical and powerful tools to improve wellbeing and vitality for his Talmidim and community.

Every week he reaches hundreds of individuals throughout the world, in both his private practice and hosting his 5-10 weekly teleconferences.

With his down-to-earth manner, warmth, and deep insights, Rabbi Nivin has spent 30 years transforming thousands of lives, helping individuals to live a life of Simcha and Menuchas Hanefesh (serenity).

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 This is series 2 of a comprehensive program that explores Marital Intimacy. Many more topics will be covered in future series

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You can listen to the first series, which covers the topic of Piyus, “Hashkafas HaTorah al Simchos Ishto”, for free. This series can be accessed by dialing 845-414-8014.  This line is by caller ID only.  To register for the free series, please email ohelmiriam@gmail.com with your name and phone number.  Registration is for MEN only.

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Due to the deeply sensitive nature of the material, these Shiurim will not be downloadable. However, participants will be able to access recordings by phone or computer.

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The 9 Middos are nine different situations under which intimacy between husband and wife is problematic. By exploring the negatives, we’ll learn to do the positives- and discover what the essence of Jewish intimacy is.

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We certainly plan to in a general way, but if participants feel there is a strong need, we might do a series 2 on this topic.

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Due to the extremely delicate and sensitive nature of this material, these topics will be discussed in a general and not overtly explicit manner. However if you feel you need time to discuss more complicated issues, there is an option for private coaching.  Please be aware and understand the complexity of teaching a class like this in a public forum.

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The course is taught on a fairly high level, so it’s not recommended for brand new beginners to Jewish thought.

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This lecture is not about Taharas Hamishpacha. It covers a broad scope of topics within marital intimacy and is much more comprehensive than initial Chosson classes. It is unfortunate that most men haven’t taken any courses on the subject since their engagement days- this course is a rare opportunity to do so.

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No, this course is not suitable for women, and it is a strong infraction of Jewish law for any woman to listen to it for any reason.

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During the class, there will be the option to be in contact through text or email. If relevant, the answers will be discussed during the lecture. Between classes, short email answers will be provided, depending on time considerations. If you need more time to discuss more complicated issues, there is an option for private coaching.

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“I listened to the recordings of the first 2 Shiurim on Piyus and they were truly incredible.

Thank you for putting this together and please continue to do so, this way we can all benefit.

Yasher koach and Hatzlacha Raba!”

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“I listened to the 3 classes, it was amazing, no words,

please email me info about the small chabura.”

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“I found it enlightening and to be honest, straight out shocking at the “chomer ha’inyan”

(the seriousness of these matters).

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“It was very informative and educating.”

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“Just wanted to tell you how much I enjoyed and gained from the shiurim!”

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“This was a topic that I totally missed,

as I was thinking actually the opposite [of what you presented]…

but as was clear from the shiurim and the מקורות, that was straightforward wrong.”

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“Thanks for the informative and thorough shiurim.

I hope there will be some more coming…

חנוכה שמח, וכל טוב”

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-This is series 2 of a comprehensive program that explores marital intimacy. Many more topics will be covered in future series.

(You can listen to the first series, which covers the topic of Piyus, “Hashkafas HaTorah al Simchos Ishto”, for free. This series can be accessed by dialing 845-414-8014.  This line is by caller ID only.  To register for the free series, please email ohelmiriam@gmail.com with your name and phone number.  Registration is for MEN only.)

-Due to the extremely delicate and sensitive nature of this material, these topics will be discussed in a general and not overtly explicit manner. However if you feel you need time to discuss more complicated issues, there is an option for private coaching.  Please be aware and understand the complexity of teaching a class like this in a public forum.

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